Men are not usually the most romantic
creatures. Usually it takes a lot of prompting and training for them to become romantic
and to make him realize that you need some romance in your life.
One way to get him to take notice is to
romance yourself. You deserve it and if he is not going to do for you, you can
do it for yourself. Start out by getting yourself into shape both physically
and mentally, change what you can and want to change and learn to accept the
things that cannot be changed.
Every woman wants to be a sexy woman
deserving of love and romance. Get comfortable with your body and decide that
you want to have a great love life. Get a makeover; change your hairstyle and
even your hair colour. Pamper yourself - Go for a day at the spa.
Exercise for a strong healthy and sexy
body. Take dance classes that really get you moving like a Latin or salsa class
or a belly dancing class, something with moves you can use in the bedroom. Even,
learn how to be like a stripper that enchants and captivates men. Then go
shopping and buy some new stylish and sexy clothing, especially sexy underwear
and lingerie.
You should start to feel the changes within
yourself. You should be becoming more confident and feeling sexy. He should
start to notice the changes in you too. Maybe he will wonder what is going on. Make
him wonder. Buy yourself flowers, send yourself gifts. Let him wonder if
someone else sent them to you. Set the scene for romance with candles, wine and
a special dinner for two. I hope that by now he is taking the hint and sending
some of his own style of romance your way.
If he is still not catching on do not give
up yet. Make the first move with him. Most men love nothing more than having
their woman desire them and come after them. Sometimes the hunter really enjoys
becoming the hunted. This will surely make him take notice. Be a little
aggressive with him.
By learning to romance yourself and put
your needs and desires at the top of the list, romance and passion from your
partner are sure to follow.
