How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You
noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he
noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He
looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few
seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with
some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that
up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any
of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you
out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend
that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and
where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but
his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone
that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you.
He's hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even
though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is
sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You
think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to
you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and
responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is:
"Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted
to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring
in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on
and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the
question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both
know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can
only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been
paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red
when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I
don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the
same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy
person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great
life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your
career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally
talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths.
Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on
the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is
where relationships begin.
