Nobody can claim that he or she does not
have self-confidence problems the one or the other time, whether pertaining to
sex, dating, marriage, the way I look, or something else.
Generally, self-confidence issues are based
on the unknown, because we really fear the unknown - when we have no idea how
someone will react to the things we do, anxiety runs wild, and we are not
calmed until it is over.
Know that others feel the same way.
Whatever self-confidence issue might bother you, rest assured that someone else
has experienced it before. Whether it is physical or psychological, other men
and women have worried about the same things, which mean that you are by no
means alone.
Give yourself a break. When you feel
overwhelmed by any insecurity, take a step back, and evaluate the situation.
Berating yourself for your lack of self-confidence will only serve to make you
more anxious. Instead, come to terms with the issue and work through it.
Daniel