Sensual Massage for Women

If you feel tense, and the strain of modern living is telling on you, there is nothing better than a soothing massage

Massage is an effective remedy for a very wide variety of muscular complaints, particularly those caused by tension. For amid the strain of everyday living, we often do not realize that our muscles are becoming taut and knotted, losing their elasticity and, in the process adding to that general run-down feeling. A good massage will loosen the muscle fibres, dissolving hard knots below the skin and leaving the body feeling more flexible and relaxed.

Massage also has a hidden benefit aside from its physical advantages. It provides a time for you to relax completely to shut out the world and to concentrate on your own body. It can help you locate where the trouble spots are and give you the opportunity to think about how to avoid future build-ups of body tension. In addition, of course, it is a marvellously sensuous experience and feels wonderful.

Massage at home

With the grown of interest in self-help relaxation, your local library and bookshop are likely to have an assortment of books on different types of massage. If you look at a basic introductory manual, you may be surprised to discover that the art of massage can be practiced by amateurs at home. All it needs is a little time and a willing friend. As you will learn from any massage manual, the basic stroking techniques are elegantly simple. They involve rubbing the skin with different parts of the hand and applying varying degrees of pressure. 

For the massage, you will require a thick blanket covered with a cotton sheet over a thin mattress or layer of foam placed on the floor. Beds are not advisable, as they normally do not provide enough underlying support. For sitting massage, you should have a chair with a straight seat and back.

Although it is not essential, the person massaging may find it beneficial to apply a little oil to his or her hands, to prevent friction. The person being massaged will also find it a pleasant sensation. Light oil such as almond or safflower is ideal. 

Make sure the atmosphere is comfortable – choose a warm, quiet spot with plenty of room for the masseur to move around, gentle, indirect lighting and possibly soothing music. Some people prefer to be massaged nude, while others wear a swimsuit - choose whatever makes you feel best. The idea is to be relaxed as possible. 

Mutual enjoyment

In a massage session of about 40 minutes to an hour, you should aim to completely relax the body by repeated application of basic strokes and then to concentrate on one specific area such as the neck or lower back. A cool shower after the massage will leave the subject feeling refreshed and toned up. In the nest session, swap roles so that you can both enjoy the sensual pleasure of being massaged.  

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Use the French Kiss to express your love!

Of all the types of kisses, nothing is more romantic and more sensual than a French kiss. The reason is that people see a French kiss is filled with passion.

The reason is that a French kiss is romantic and passionate. The ultimate aim is to create a romantic mood filled with intimacy and tender love. The first rule is to moisten the lips before moving close to your partner's lips.

Rub your tongue on the lips sensually to signal that you are in a mood to kiss passionately! The secret here is that the lips must be moistened. Use lip gloss or lip balm to moisten the lips.

Once the lips are moistened, move closer to your partner, and tilt your head angle towards one side either left or right to avoid the interference of nose.

The eyes must be closed to get in the mood and the vibe of romance and sensuality. This will also establish intimacy.

French kiss is an open mouth kiss which involves lip contact. Start by first kissing the closed lips and then open the mouth slowly and let it go deep.

While you give a French kiss, you either suck the lower or upper lip at a time. If you are sucking the lower lip of your partner, your upper lips will be sucked by the partner.

Use your tongue while kissing. This type of kiss is not limited to lips but also involves tongues. While kissing, rub your tongue on the partner's lips and try to insert in the partner's mouth. You can also pull the tongue slightly with the help of your teeth when your partner tries to put the tongue inside your mouth.

This type of kiss can make the use of tongue to tickle each other while kissing. Use the tongue to its fullest while you give French kiss.

A fresh breath is essential. Avoid smelly foods (garlic, brie cheese, corn chips, coffee) beforehand. Freshen up with a mint or gum.

Read your date's body language to ensure a French kiss would be welcomed. Holding hands and gentle brush-ups during the date are good signs.

There is no single right way to French kiss. Kissing is as individual as the people doing it. The most important thing is to be true to yourself, your date and the moment.

French kissing can quickly unleash passions. Know your limits beforehand and be prepared to put the other person on hold when you reach them.

Kissing is a nice way to end a fight or to express your love to your partner. It is intimate, sensual and filled with passion. Kissing anytime makes you feel great. For women, kissing is a way to know and express your love. If her man kisses her, she feels wanted and loved.

Try it – it something out of this world – no wonder the French is such passionate lovers!!!

What does it take to be a sensual woman

Sensual is just what it means – to be of the senses. It is the senses being used to give pleasure and it is the sensation you feel each time your senses become aroused by pleasure. It is all about the pleasure to smell the one you love, the pleasure your fingers feel when they touch or caress your lover, the pleasure your lips taste when you kiss him and the pleasure your ears feel when you hear his voice.

A person’s senses become intensely sensual when you feel the pleasures from deep within you. It is a tingling feeling that warms your entire body and soul. It arouses and excites you from the tip of your head to the soles of your feet. It is soft, gentle, and alluring. It is all power. It is mesmerizing and soothing. It is seductive and erotic. It is sincere. In essence, sensuality is the gentle persuasive manner in which to achieve the impossible!

Is it not true that a sensual massage is a wonderful way to connect and arouse the senses? To touch, hold and caressing one another brings you closer to your lover and it gives a sense of intimacy.

This is what female sensuality is all about. It is fundamentally the capability to achieve the result you want by using gentle sensual touch, soft-spoken words, humour, and subtle manipulation to your advantage. You will not achieve anything if you lash out, tell him he is crazy, refuse to reason with him, treat him with disdain, or tell him that he has it all wrong.

To be that special sensual woman, you have to decide that you want to be sensual and fully understand what it can do for you. You have to think sensually in almost everything you do and say. In other words, it must become an automatic way of thinking and feeling.

Learn to love yourself. Remember that you cannot love others if you do not love yourself. Recognise your capabilities and discover your uniqueness. Then you must accept who and what you are. Keep your head held high and your posture upright, and keep your head intact! Believe in yourself. You must have a positive healthy attitude that generates growth and let go of the negative ones that inhibit progress. You can’t be sensual if you hate the way you look: believe that you’re useless, stupid or foolish; believe that you are dowdy or a frump; unhappy with who you are; act in a crude and overbearing fashion; hate the world and the people in it; act rough and loud; harbour resentment; have a bitter heart and a twisted mind; or complain continuously about everything.

Be gentle with others, be gentle in your manner, be gentle when you speak, be gentle in everything you say and do instead of acting instinctively by being on the defensive all the time. This way you will get everyone to see your point of view and they will succumb to you, and not you to them. You have to slow down. Stop doing everything in a hurry then you will not break so many nails, bump your body against hard objects, drop things, and break things that could cost you. By becoming sensual, you will gently persuade your lover to say and do things just the way you want him to. You will gently convince him to see your point of view. You will tenderly persuade him to go where you want to go. In addition, subtly persuade him to see things your way.

You automatically become beautiful when you activate your sensuality. You will also have a natural sex appeal. Having sensuality and a healthy sex appeal will let you feel good about yourself, radiate a positive and confident attractiveness, and know just how to get people to take notice and listen. Women who are sensual to most people are those who believe in themselves and have a positive attitude. They portray self-confidence. They articulate with style. They have a definite poise and hold their heads up high with dignity. They treat others with respect, are interesting, exciting and fun to be with. Their whole demeanour is pure, clean, classy, and respectful.   

 

It is all about how you feel about yourself deep within. When you feel good about yourself, others will feel good about you. It is as simple as that! Always keep in mind that what is sensual to some people may not necessarily be sensual to others. Always remember that true sensual women are soft and gentle, alluring and exciting, creative, sincere and responsive. It has everything to do with how you feel, think, and act. You too can be the sensual woman you want to be by being soft and gentle, confident and dignified, humorous and smart. All you have to do is make the decision. So go on, give it a try for a day and you will be astounded as to how people will respond to you more positively. Just create the atmosphere and the mood, and you will find that it is not so difficult after all. However, be careful not to allow your sensuality to become an obsession or a passion and then use it to manipulate and destroy others and yourself in the process.

You are woman, you are a sensual being!

Living a sensual life

Did you know that making love is the only endeavour which simultaneously engages and excites all six senses: sight, sound, smell, touch, taste and that sixth sense when you just know this is right or wrong for you?

We are born sensual beings. Studies have shown that babies that are touched and held develop far better and quicker than those who are left alone. Watch any child discover its world through its senses. It will touch and taste everything from sand to perfume.

When our sexuality starts to awaken, we are reprimanded for touching ourselves and whilst doing this in public is not always a good thing, we confuse the instruction and somewhere along the line we begin to believe that it is a bad thing – always. Most of us lose touch with our sensuality. We begin to operate using only one or two senses.

You may be a sight person. Blindfold yourself for half an hour and see how quickly the other senses heighten. Imagine living a life with all your senses heightened?

Imagine discovering the power and joy of your own sexuality and then sharing that with your partner. We can learn to re-awaken our senses. Martha Beck said ‘Make your life a romance adventure and love will find you’.

Here are some tips on how to engage those senses:

Sight – Glance my way

Wear tantalising underwear, always. Throw out those stretched panties now!

Create a romantic ambience in your home and your office. Fill it with paintings that reflect your personality. Light candles when you eat, when you bath or in the garden.

Watch your favourite sensual movie or just your favourite scene.

Sound – Whisper to me

Play some soothing music. The best music for that massage shouldn’t have words. You don’t want your partner singing along. ‘I will survive!’ would be so inappropriate.

Three minutes of whispering sweet compliments, appreciation and love declarations into your lover’s ear, is more foreplay than most of us can handle. Do it often.

Why not try your hand at writing an erotic poem and reading it to your partner? If you can’t then what about reading your partner someone else’s.

Smell – Scent of a Woman

Always wear perfume. It will give you such joy. If you are a man, know that there is nothing better than a man who smells good enough to eat!

Light incense. Find one that doesn’t smell too sweet and doesn’t give you a headache.

Erotic aromatherapy oils such as Sandalwood, Ylang-Ylang, Rose and Jasmine can all add to that romantic mood. Use them in massage oils or burners. When he closes his eyes he should remember your smell – in a good way!

Taste – Lick me slowly

Nothing tells a girl more about a potential lover that his kiss.

Add delicious delicacies to your lovemaking – strawberries, cream and honey can all be served on your lover’s body parts.

Chocolate body paints – in different flavours - need I say more!

Always make sure that you are fresh enough to eat.

Touch – Feel me now

Soft fabrics like silk or fur will serve to heighten your sense of touch. Add a blindfold and watch the goose bumps.

Remember that touch helps to connect – touch yourself and your partner – often.

Indulge in that sensual massage. Learn how to give one and then teach your partner how to return the favour.

Sixth Sense – Are you there

Fine-tune that sense. You know when something feels right. You also know when a boundary is being crossed. Trust your instinct and say no.

Always have a safe word that your partner knows. When you say that word no matter what you are doing, stop. For a fulfilled sexual experience with yourself or your partner you need to trust.

Try to enhance one of your senses very day. Set aside special sensuality time when you focus on stimulating other senses rather than the genitals only. Be essensually you.

By Sharon  

My Beautiful World

Five Tips for a More Sensual Marriage

While sex is an essential part of a good marriage, the art of sensuality is lost on many couples. Arousing the senses purely for the enjoyment of that stimulation, even if it doesn’t always lead to sex, keeps the senses tingling and makes the relationship more exciting.

Long, slow kisses, warm embraces, and playful moments of tickling usually come natural to people who are in love. Yet, sometimes these things get lost when life takes over, and married couples especially, must take care to keep those sparks alive.

You can also develop an array of other sensual experiences to keep things fresh and to develop a more intimate relationship. Here are some ideas:

1. Learn to give a great massage. Massage is an art and there are plenty of tantalizing techniques you can develop that will make your husband or wife feel pampered. Add scented oils, lotions, or even powder to diffuse friction while deeply massaging tight, tired muscles. Help your spouse learn to let go while you massage away the tensions of the day. A lovingly administered massage can be very healing and nurturing.

2. Touch your spouse often. Hold hands. Brush up against him. Sit close together. Gently run your fingers over her cheek or through her hair. Touch each other just because you can. Often, the most subtle touches can be the most electrifying. Your husband or wife will feel your deep affection, when you touch him or her every chance you get.

3. Serve sensual meals. Create a mixture of hot and cold, chewy and creamy, smooth and crunchy. Champagne tickling the nose then the tongue, succulent meats and cheeses, warm breads, spicy foods with great textures, and rich, decadent desserts such as fresh berries dipped in chocolate stimulate sight, taste, smell, and touch.

4. Have Special Secrets. Whisper things to each other, share secret gestures, and give each other longing looks. Come up with special words or phrases that don’t mean a thing to anyone else, but mean everything to you and your spouse. Even in a crowded room, make eye contact with your spouse and hold his or her attention until you feel like the only two people there. When you can’t be alone, a discreet wink, a whispered secret, or blowing a little kiss will keep the connection going.

5. Have fun. Life is too short to be serious all the time. It’s okay to be silly and playful. Having fun and laughing together may be the most sensual part of marriage. These things stimulate an overall sense of well-being. People who can play and laugh together feel very content with one another, so it is important to keep the fun alive in your marriage.

Sensuality helps keep a marriage warm and comfortable. It can also set the mood for more frequent and more relaxed sexual experiences. The bond that develops through sensual interactions and improved sex is important for maintaining a good marriage even through difficult times. Such a bond also creates deep intimacy, and an openness to touch, that allows each partner to share more readily and to comfort the other more easily in times of trouble.

Now that you know how easy it is to make your marriage even better, and how much fun you can have getting there, what are you waiting for?

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Beauty Tips for First Dates

Ah, first dates. They can be intimidating, exhilarating…even completely mortifying. To pump yourself up for the big event, spend a little extra time primping and planning. Pamper yourself with a bubble bath. Listen to some music. Indulge in a glass of wine to calm your nerves. Dates are meant to be fun for both parties, so lighten up, loosen up and let the preparation games begin!

If you’re fishing for some kissing, keep those lips glistening. Apply your favourite lip-gloss or Chap Stick as needed. Sparkles and added shine draw more attention to just how kissable your lips really are! Don’t skimp on the tasty lip treats…you may not be the only one enjoying them!

For the ultimate mysterious guise, accentuate your eyes. Many people consider the eyes to be the window to one’s soul. With a language all their own, eyes convey every emotion – joy, sorrow, uncertainty, nervousness, mischievousness, sarcasm and on down the line.

Let your eyes engage their own conversation with your date, thanks to a special flair and style stemming right back to your choice of mascara, eye shadow and eyeliner. Select shades that complement your skin tone as well as your wardrobe, and apply enough to be noticed, but not too much to be overwhelming. Lengthen and thicken your lashes with a bold mascara and swipe on a little eye shadow to bring some color into the equation. Use eyeliner to emphasize your eyes, bringing their intensity up just a bit.

Got a blemish? Fret not. Some concealer and pressed powder can save the day. Zits happen. We’ve all had them, and we’ll probably see many more of them in our days. Now, unless you’ve got the honker of all honkers, chances are you’re more than likely overreacting to the situation at hand. Have you ever noticed when a friend exclaims something like, “Oh my gosh, can you believe the size of this sucker?!” – sometimes you still can’t see the blemish, even after she points it out to you? It may be true that we are always more critical of ourselves, sometimes to the point of excess.

To help erase the unsightly mark on your face, try a drop of Visine to get the red out, or apply a solution containing benzoyl peroxide. Once the area dries, apply concealer to the affected area and blend it in as best you can. Now apply the pressed powder to your entire face, step back and examine the damage. Most times, this method clears up the spot enough that you’d have to be looking for the blemish in order to identify it.

Select a sexy fragrance and flaunt it. If scent truly is the strongest sense tied to memory, choice of fragrance can be an invaluable factor in your preparation for the big night. If you end up connecting with your date, you will probably want to instill a completely sensual and mind-blowing impression on him. Do this effortlessly with a perfume you love - and one he won’t be able to get enough of!

Pack a “beauty survival kit” and keep it with you, just in case. This kit should contain all emergency items and still fit safely out of sight, inside your purse. Consider including items like dental floss and/or toothpicks for stubborn broccoli, tissues, eye drops, aspirin (in case your date drives you bonkers), and toiletries in case of a surprise visit. If you are driving separately and meeting somewhere, you may wish to keep an extra pair of pantyhose in your car in case your skirt or dress gets a runner.

By Kathryn M. D’Imperio