How to be a passionate lover

1. Shower together. When in the shower, keep close physical contact. Wash him and whisper in his ear the things you love about him.

2. Share a romantic dinner in front of the fireplace. Wear something sexy and enticing. Make sure the dinner is conducive to a romantic setting. Food that can easily be eaten with the least amount of utensils is usually your best bet!

3. Let there always be some physical contact with him when at home. Keeping a sparked connection throughout the night is one of the most effective ways to keeping your partner passionate about you.

4. Do not neglect the magic of kissing. How often do you really just express your desire in a kiss? When you first start dating, it is usually one of the only ways to express your desire. Refresh your kissing skills by every so often catching your partner off-guard with a weak-in-the-knees passionate kiss.

5. Relieve his work stress at the end of the day with a slow, sensual massage, complete with massage oil.

6. Spoil him by reading him an erotic bedtime story. The best encounters are those you do not plan on.

7. Write a sexy letter describing everything you would like to do to him. Leave no doubts about your attraction and get them ready for some loving with a very in-depth description about what you enjoy doing to them!

Remember, it is the small things that count. The most important three words are: “I love You”

What does it take to be a sensual woman

Sensual is just what it means – to be of the senses. It is the senses being used to give pleasure and it is the sensation you feel each time your senses become aroused by pleasure. It is all about the pleasure to smell the one you love, the pleasure your fingers feel when they touch or caress your lover, the pleasure your lips taste when you kiss him and the pleasure your ears feel when you hear his voice.

A person’s senses become intensely sensual when you feel the pleasures from deep within you. It is a tingling feeling that warms your entire body and soul. It arouses and excites you from the tip of your head to the soles of your feet. It is soft, gentle, and alluring. It is all power. It is mesmerizing and soothing. It is seductive and erotic. It is sincere. In essence, sensuality is the gentle persuasive manner in which to achieve the impossible!

Is it not true that a sensual massage is a wonderful way to connect and arouse the senses? To touch, hold and caressing one another brings you closer to your lover and it gives a sense of intimacy.

This is what female sensuality is all about. It is fundamentally the capability to achieve the result you want by using gentle sensual touch, soft-spoken words, humour, and subtle manipulation to your advantage. You will not achieve anything if you lash out, tell him he is crazy, refuse to reason with him, treat him with disdain, or tell him that he has it all wrong.

To be that special sensual woman, you have to decide that you want to be sensual and fully understand what it can do for you. You have to think sensually in almost everything you do and say. In other words, it must become an automatic way of thinking and feeling.

Learn to love yourself. Remember that you cannot love others if you do not love yourself. Recognise your capabilities and discover your uniqueness. Then you must accept who and what you are. Keep your head held high and your posture upright, and keep your head intact! Believe in yourself. You must have a positive healthy attitude that generates growth and let go of the negative ones that inhibit progress. You can’t be sensual if you hate the way you look: believe that you’re useless, stupid or foolish; believe that you are dowdy or a frump; unhappy with who you are; act in a crude and overbearing fashion; hate the world and the people in it; act rough and loud; harbour resentment; have a bitter heart and a twisted mind; or complain continuously about everything.

Be gentle with others, be gentle in your manner, be gentle when you speak, be gentle in everything you say and do instead of acting instinctively by being on the defensive all the time. This way you will get everyone to see your point of view and they will succumb to you, and not you to them. You have to slow down. Stop doing everything in a hurry then you will not break so many nails, bump your body against hard objects, drop things, and break things that could cost you. By becoming sensual, you will gently persuade your lover to say and do things just the way you want him to. You will gently convince him to see your point of view. You will tenderly persuade him to go where you want to go. In addition, subtly persuade him to see things your way.

You automatically become beautiful when you activate your sensuality. You will also have a natural sex appeal. Having sensuality and a healthy sex appeal will let you feel good about yourself, radiate a positive and confident attractiveness, and know just how to get people to take notice and listen. Women who are sensual to most people are those who believe in themselves and have a positive attitude. They portray self-confidence. They articulate with style. They have a definite poise and hold their heads up high with dignity. They treat others with respect, are interesting, exciting and fun to be with. Their whole demeanour is pure, clean, classy, and respectful.   

 

It is all about how you feel about yourself deep within. When you feel good about yourself, others will feel good about you. It is as simple as that! Always keep in mind that what is sensual to some people may not necessarily be sensual to others. Always remember that true sensual women are soft and gentle, alluring and exciting, creative, sincere and responsive. It has everything to do with how you feel, think, and act. You too can be the sensual woman you want to be by being soft and gentle, confident and dignified, humorous and smart. All you have to do is make the decision. So go on, give it a try for a day and you will be astounded as to how people will respond to you more positively. Just create the atmosphere and the mood, and you will find that it is not so difficult after all. However, be careful not to allow your sensuality to become an obsession or a passion and then use it to manipulate and destroy others and yourself in the process.

You are woman, you are a sensual being!

Love is beautiful

It is not easy to define or describe love. However, we know exactly when we are in love!

But what is love? Love is a subtle feeling may occur because of a single look, smell, words, appearance can change the way you feel about someone. Though, most of the time it is the physical appearance that that plays a huge role in initially attracting someone to you. However, love is not just a physical attraction; it is as spiritual and emotional as physical.

A person in love feels feel a strong bond with another person. You will always be on the lookout for this person. You will be happy whenever the person you are in love with acknowledges you. This acknowledgement could be a mere look, a polite nod, or a shy smile. The feeling of being in love is one of the most beautiful of them all. You will find that everything around you is bright, sunny, optimistic, happy, and beautiful. Being in love is a unique experience all human being should undergo. The experience can teach us reach new heights in maintaining and nurturing relationships.

You cannot conceal love from others especially when the person you love is around you. People who know you well will immediately notice the difference in your attitude. When you are in love, there is no hiding your feelings as much you may try. You will end up expressing love one way or the other.

To be in love is one of the best emotions a human being can have. It is the best time of your life.

Love is beautiful!!

Daniel

How to be a good lover

Most men will never have a torso like Jean-Claude van Damme, own a McLaren F1 or be able to recite Shakespeare's love sonnets. That's okay; because a few short steps can turn you into the sort of lover that will make your partner overlook these shortcomings.

Learn the art of sensual massage

Visit your local Body Shop outlet and display no hint of emotion as you buy some of their pricey but hugely useful Sensual Bath and Massage Oil. Or make up your own concoction of oils, including sandalwood, lemon grass, musk and lavender. You can use the essential oils in a burner, or mix it with carrier oil - sweet almond oil is fine - and use it as massage oil. A warning on massage: many blokes rub too hard. Try to rub more softly than you like to be rubbed. By all means work the back (never directly on the spine), shoulders, arms, buttocks and legs, but for a change, massage your partner's face and hands as well. Think of how stress builds up in your face, squinting at a monitor, traffic or dollar-rand exchange rates. It’s the same for her.

Make a special place for love

Yes, there are times for wild, impromptu couplings on your desk, the kitchen counter and car bonnet. But you're likely to rely on your bed as the backdrop for most of your lovemaking, so have a look at what's around it. The photo of your ex has to go, for a start. Ridding the room of clutter is paramount. Even if you don't go for the Scandinavian minimalist look, at least get rid of those all those dusty copies of National Geographic on the bedside table. Some wind chimes, subtle incense can do nicely, and an indoor water feature might be fun. Switch off all phones and the door bell.

Appeal to all the senses

We already mentioned incense. If the sound of the neighbour saying "Lekker-like-a-cracker" (for the 47th time) while he cleans his new swimming pool irks you, maybe it's time to buy a new house, or at least to block out the banality with some white noise courtesy of a fan or a water feature. Dispense with the Red Hot Chilli Peppers CD in favour of something earthier. Some lovers swear by CDs containing only the sound of the crashing sea. Try laying on some food and wine. Strawberries sound clichéd, but when they're small and sweet, late in the season, there are few items that size that are sexier. And they'll leave no doubt about your dishonourable intentions.

Get into shape

Yes, of course you need to work on your abs, but you don't need to win any body-building contests - most women prefer a man with a finely muscled, defined body, especially if he's not obsessive about it. Obsession is fine, as long as it’s in a bottle, not in your head. Regular exercise, not to mention soap and water, ought to suffice. There are some blokes who compensate for being fat by packing on muscle. This only works if you're a Hell's Angel. Forget about seeing your biceps in the mirror and concentrate on shared pleasure.

Learn a bit about tantric sex

No need to paint a dot on your forehead and change your name to Rama Yama Dang Ban. If you learn one trick, make it this one. Spend a long time on devoted foreplay. Then start with shallow thrusting, no more than an inch inside her. Do ten of these, then have one deep, firm thrust. Now work your way back, eight shallow and one deep, seven shallow and one deep ... you get the picture. By the time you get to the end of the cycle, she may want to name a street, town or province after you.

By William Smook

5 Ways to Love the Woman You Married

Listen to Your Wife

Do you listen to what your wife is saying? You listen to your boss when he is rambling on, don’t you? You listen to your naïve buddies tell you all kinds of things that don’t really matter in life, don’t you? Well then, why aren’t you listening to your wife? Start really hearing what she has to say and be supportive of her feelings and opinions. That means, opening up your ears and being perceptive to your wife’s needs.

Appreciate Your Wife

When was the last time you told your wife how much you really appreciate her and all the things she does? A woman puts out a lot more energy into the home and family affairs than the husband does. Sometimes she may feel as if she is the only one doing anything around the house and this is when she starts getting bossy and naggy with you.

I encourage you husband’s to start appreciating your wife for all that she does for you and the family. Marriage can be such a beautiful relationship when you show your love with wisdom. Stop just for a moment, and mediate on the beautiful woman you married. Be thankful that God gave her to you. Realize how blessed you are to have this woman as your wife and know that she is your right arm and sometimes your left arm too. Make your wife feel good about who she is and all that she does.

Please Your Wife Sexually

There is a difference between having sex and making love. Sex is a one sided selfish act that is mostly enjoyed by the husband. Women need a bit more pampering and nurturing in the bedroom. I mean, what does a woman get out of five minutes of copulation? Okay, so it takes a little bit more time to please your wife and you’re tired, so make love in the afternoon or early morning. You do have options. Love your wife with wisdom and start pleasing the woman you married.

Be More Helpful

Be more helpful by “asking” your wife if there is anything she needs you to do around the house, in the kitchen, or in the yard. For instance, she isn’t the only one who eats dinner you know. Maybe she would like some help chopping up vegetables, setting the table, or loading the dishwasher. She probably has mowed your yard for you, so give back in return and do some extra things for her around the house. She will be pleased that you did.

Be the Man of the House

Be her man and she’ll want to be your woman. Did you know that your wife becomes bossy and domineering because you are not listening to her? She feels unloved and unneeded by you when you take her for granted instead of appreciating all that she does for you and the family? A woman needs to be valued by her husband. This gives her more love to give to you.

If you want a humble and kind wife then don’t behave as if you are better than her. Share your feelings with your wife and get close with her. Don’t be afraid to let down your guard once in awhile. If you have emotions that are not getting met, talk to your wife about it. A wife wants to be there for her husband but if you don’t let your wife in, how can she help?

If you want a feminine, humble and kind wife, then don’t try and control her to be what you want her to be. She needs to be her own person. What you can do though, is control yourself to behave a certain way that makes your wife want to submit to your loving influence. Be a good example and she will want to surrender her love to that example. Love your wife with wisdom.

By Angie Lewis

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