When you mention the word erotic, the first thing that
spring to mind is that it is something to do with sex. So, it certainly does
have a great deal to do with it, but there are many other aspects of sensuality
that do not require a sexual experience.
To understand your
own sensual nature can be of use not just for your sexual experiences, but also
in understanding yourself as a human being.
It is important to
remember that making discoveries about your sensual and erotic feelings are for
your benefit and while these discoveries may serve you well in situations
involving love your focus should not be on another person when still trying to
get to know yourself.
Try to keep an open mind and do not shy away from your inner
most thoughts and feelings; remember that you are not trying to impress anyone,
just figure out a little more about who you are.
Once you feel relaxed
and ready to devote some time to self-exploration it is time to find out what
you feel about sensuality from a mental perspective.
After taking the time
to think over what this idea means to you currently you may find out a great
deal more than you expected to. While a feeling of sensuality often has a lot
to do with touch and the physical it often begins first in the mind. Sights,
sounds and smells all play an enormous part in how you feel. The wrong
surrounding can destroy this mood regardless of how interested you in a
partner, or simply having fun.
Allow your body to relax and simply free float through ideas
that come to you when focusing on sensuality. Practice this until you find
certain ideas, images, situation, or fantasies, which allow you to openly feel
sensual and maintain that feeling.
By making use of your freely sensual mind you can improve
your skills at flirting and have an excellent time building toward the physical
as you go.
Each individual will find many different forms of touch that
may have previously gone unnoticed and have now been transformed into spots
that could easily create an erotic feeling over the entire body. Knowing where
and how you like to be touched is an essential for the health of your physical
happiness.
Practicing this transformation and understanding how to
summon this feeling will can help to improve your life in many ways. Because
sensuality touches so many different areas of life, the lack of understanding
or fear of such a feeling can cause great unhappiness and insecurity.
Allow yourself the freedom of being open to such feelings
and find the strength to unite the mind, body, and perhaps even soul in your
sensual well-being.
