Life after marriage is a little serious as responsibilities
start from the day one. During that time, couples cannot run behind the bushes
and sing songs as that will not make their meal. Men need to get focus about
career and women need to plan to be good homemakers. With this learning
process, love is tightly wrapped in the heart as the couple feel that there is
still time to share feelings.
But life is too short and love needs to be a part so what
may be the best to express it other than physical intimacy?. Now, the couple
are legally bond so lovemaking can be their daily routine.
With marriage both men and women are assured that they will
be for each other so love can happen any anytime. Physical attraction or change
in moods need not be planned but can happen unknowingly. A hot scene on TV can
turn the couple on, a silly cat fight can become a move to get close and the
household work can put a foundation to build a love network.
Love is in the air after marriage, any time can be the time
to make love. Plans can be changed or even get cancelled for the private time.
Men tend to dress as less as possible when they are at home while women
wouldn't mind shelling out money for fancy night wears.
Women try to get tips from the experienced to spice the
romance between them and their husband. They try preparing delicious
aphrodisiacs just to get their partner into mood. Women try to hint men by
giving them a head and body massage. They wear fragrant products to set the
mood for the day.
After marriage, love needs no materialistic things such as
greeting cards or sweets but learning lovemaking techniques (the new positions,
tricks and ideas) is what couples expect. They even gift each other lingerie,
flavored condoms or even viagra to get the utmost pleasure.
The 'married' always want lovemaking to be a way to present
love and not to see it as a task. As long as the couple enjoy each other, the
bonding is strong and the understanding levels are also high so lovemaking is
indeed the best way to express love after marriage.
Acknowlegement: Oneindia.com
