Lord Byron, the famous poet said: “The great thing is to
feel we exist, even though in pain.” Very true and applicable words!
Women have the ability to be drawn to those who are not
afraid to let themselves feel, because they are swept along by the tide of
enthusiasm, the zest for life, the vibrancy, and the joy. No wonder that other
women will want to join you, to participate in the funny, crazy, sad and
beautiful experiences of life.
Unfortunately, we can quickly get into the habit of trying
to restrain our true feelings and the sad result is that we can lose touch with
our own reality – we constantly try to project a ‘safe’ image – neatly packaged,
antiseptic, cool, and collected.
Go and look at children – they are so beautiful because they
are so alive, free spirited – they have not yet been conditioned in those often
crippling adult restraints. These restraints, if exercised to the extreme, can
actually close us off from life.
We as women will forever be happier with ourselves to
release the abundant life within us; and we will certainly be more attractive, beautiful,
and interesting to our friends, loved ones, and partners!