One way to get your man in your life to
take notice of the romantic you is to romance yourself. You deserve it and if
he is not going to do it for you, you can do it for yourself. Start out by
getting yourself into shape both physically and mentally, change what you can
and want to change and learn to accept the things that cannot be changed.
Get comfortable with your naked body and
decide that you want to have a great sex life. Get a makeover; change your
hairstyle and even your hair colour. Go for a day at the spa. Pamper yourself.
Get moving, exercise for a strong healthy
and sexy body. Take dance classes that really get you moving like a Latin or
salsa class or a belly dancing class, something with moves you can use in the
bedroom. Then go shopping and buy some new stylish and sexy clothing,
especially sexy underwear and lingerie.
You should be becoming more confident and
feeling sexy. He should start to notice the changes in you too. Maybe he will
wonder what is going on. Buy yourself flowers and send yourself gifts. I hope
that by now he is taking the hint and sending some of his own style of romance
your way.
Never give up, make the first move with
him. Most men love nothing more than having their woman desire them and come
after them. Sometimes the hunter really enjoys becoming the hunted. This will
surely make him take notice. Be a little aggressive with him. Take charge. He
will be surprized at the new you and you’ll have him eating out of your hand.
Sometimes it is not even the man that needs
prompting with the romance, it is us. We get bogged down with the kids, home,
and work and forget that we are sexual creatures with needs. Our sexuality gets
placed on the backburner after everything else that needs to be taken care of.
By learning to romance yourself and put your needs and desires at the top of
the list, romance and passion from your partner are sure to follow.
