What is Sexism?

Role conditioning goes deep – so it may still sound odd when Dad cooks supper and Mum goes off on a business trip. But why should it – and how do we change it?

Many of us, though we pay lip service to the idea of equality of the sexes, remain secretly convinced that there are certain jobs more suited to men, for example, or character traits which belong essentially to women. But in fact there are few jobs which the right women cannot perform equally well and few aspects of personality which strictly are the prerogative of one sex alone.  

We are really all conditioned in our views of what is masculine and feminine by the society we live in. But there is nothing inherently male or female about most roles, except the sexual ones and that of giving birth and feeding a baby. In some tribes in New Guinea, for example, the men are expected to stay at home and care for the children while the women go to work in the fields. 

In recent years, the strict division between male and female roles has begun to work within marriage and even while bringing up children. But, unless both partners have given great thought to their arrangements there is a danger that both will feel guilty or resentful about their role rather than enriched. 

A woman brought up from a little girl to see marriage and children as her main role in life may deliberately restrict her progress at work even though she is talented. She has not been led to expect a successful career and is grateful to be working at all. However, this does not mean she will not feel dissatisfied with herself and the life she leads.

In the same way, a man who has been brought up to believe that a successful career is all important and that housework and children are a woman’s responsibility, will have difficulty in adapting to the demands made on him by a working wife. He may see himself as doing a great favor rather than welcoming the opportunity to develop a different side of his personality.  

Discouraging Sexual Stereotypes

As parents, we can do much to encourage flexible attitudes in our children that will give them greater freedom in adult life. We often channel small children into so-called male or female roles without realizing it. But we all have many aspects to our personality. The more we can develop the various sides, whether at work, home or leisure, the more balanced and fulfilled we become. 

Encourage all your children, whether boys of girls, to be curious and independent as well as thoughtful and caring. They should feel confident about exploring or learning about anything that interest them, whether it is horses, or sewing, climbing trees or dancing, without being concerned as to whether it is a masculine or feminine thing to do.

Parents who encourage their children to think and behave in this way are helping them to escape from the limitations imposed by sexual stereotyping of previous generations. 

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The language of seduction

Every woman needs to know how to speak the language of seduction! The language of seduction is you greatest tool in seducing and winning the man you love.

But, do not be misled. Although the spoken word is a necessity, the focus should be on non-verbal communication. Most of it is based on the silent words that speak through your body, known as body language. While performing your act of flirtation, it is important to match your body language with it. Be playful by slightly touching him in a playful way, such as a light shove and laughing. Your body actions should tell the story that you are a desirable person and that you want him.

Remember, it is also very important to be able to get his non-verbal feedback on all your flirting and seduction efforts. I you read it wrongly, or do not interpret it correctly, all your hard efforts can be in vain! Pay attention to how he responds. If he seems uncomfortable with your words or playful ways, then tone it down.

To be feminine and seductive does not always take place when you are trying to get the person you have your eyes on. Continue with your seductive character even after getting in a relationship. It is actually the most important time to bring out your seductive side because it will help the relationship remain hot, spicy, and sexy. You will always keep your partner wanting more! Keep him on his toes by dressing the part, leaving your mark, talking the talk, acting the act, and being yourself.

Daniel

How to ensure you are desired by men

Have Confidence: Nothing is more attractive to a man than a woman who is confident and feels comfortable and happy in her skin. A woman who feels good about herself is a woman most likely with a good head on her shoulders, rational, focused and has good direction in life. If a woman does not have confidence in herself, then a man feels and sees no reason to have confidence in either and he will not want to invest his time and effort in a woman he will have to baby sit emotionally all the time.

Dress Fashionably: Wearing the most expensive apparel is not the most important thing to a man, but it is important that a woman keep up with her appearances. A woman who dresses sharply comes off as a woman who is successful and who treats herself with love and respect and therefore a man will not want to do less for her either- he will love and respect you too. So be sure to keep yourself updated with fashion and keep yourself well groomed. This will not only draw men to you, but you will also feel good about yourself- which is the first priority before you please anyone else! And remember, dress sexy, but classy as well- and always leave something to the imagination.

Express Intellect - Being desirable to a man is not just about having a pretty face or shapely figure. A woman with intelligence is important to and a man wants to be with a woman who will have something to talk about and who will teach him new things, just as he will teach you new things. Everyone is unique and has their own personal talents and areas of higher intelligence than others- so be sure to express that side of yourself to prove that you do have the whole package- an attractive appearance along with other intellectual surprises. Share your hobbies, share things you have learned through your life experiences and show what he has been missing out on before he met you!

Be Sweet and Feminine - Okay, today women are more independent and career oriented, but that does not mean we should have to give up and forget our feminine roots. Women are delicate creatures after all- we are sweet and giving and it is important for a man to see these qualities in a woman. It is not weak to show a man that you are sweet and care taking- after all, this is the type of woman a man dreams coming home to- someone who will lovingly welcome him home with a sweet feminine smile and take care of him. Never lose your special feminine roots- show him your sweet and romantic side.

Tell him what you want - It is understandable that you want a man who will treat you beautifully without you having to give him directions- and you should never lower your standards when it comes to this. However, you also have to remember that men cannot read minds and let’s face- we women are emotionally unpredictable creatures and are not always easy to read. Men love it when a woman has the strength and confidence to tell him what she wants. Men want to please women, sp do not be afraid to open up and let him know what it is important to you.

Stay Glamorous - This does not mean that you should walk on eggshells and worry about your looks all the time. You should feel secure enough in your relationship to know that even when you are not made up, your man will still adore you and will not look at other women. However, this does not mean you should let yourself go and not care about the things that were once important to you. Relationship usually start going downhill when one or both partners stop caring about the little things, such as dressing up for each other, little romantic gestures and so on. So, remember the little things and always keep your self-confidence in tune by taking care of yourself- and your partner will automatically keep admiring you!

Like Your Body - Men love a woman who loves her body. A woman who walks around feeling good about her body and knowing that her body is beautiful is incredibly sexy to a man and make him curious and eager to get to know that woman. So be sure to build your physical confidence and focus on bringing out your best features. Nobody is prefect- everyone has flaws, but that does not mean that you should advertise your flaws. Get to know yourself and find your strong physical points and bring them out for the world to see and admire. If there are parts of your body that you believe could use some help, then do something about rather than complain.

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Why Most Women Love To Wear Sexy Lingerie

It is no secret that women like lingerie. While men often like to see women wearing lingerie, women enjoy even more wearing lingerie. Good lingerie can make a woman feel sexy, no matter what she is wearing on the outside. Inside, she knows that she is wearing sexy lingerie and it gives her confidence. The feeling of sexy confidence is just one reason why women like lingerie.

Over the centuries, women have used lingerie in many different ways. Corsets were in fashion up until about 60 years ago and women would bind themselves into corsets to get what used to be called an hourglass figure. It was desirable, in the early part of the 20th century, for women to have small waists. For this reason, girls were often put into corsets at a young age so that their waists would not get large. It was uncomfortable, unhealthy and restricting to say the least. Nowadays, women like lingerie for the way it feels on their skin as well as the way it makes them feel about themselves.

Lingerie is still used to improve what are often seen as flaws in the figure of a woman. Women will wear control type panties if they wish to flatten their stomach and buttocks. Women with small chests will wear push up bras or padded bras to give them more cleavage and allow their clothing to look better on them. In the mirror, a woman will examine herself in lingerie and like what she sees as she will often purchase products that will enhance her figure and hide her flaws.

In addition to being figure flattering, lingerie will make someone feel sexy. It is normal for a woman to wear sexy undergarments or nightgowns when going to bed to try to evoke passion in her mate. A woman uses lingerie to invoke the sense of sight when arranging for a romantic evening with her partner. She will often wear enticing lingerie that she knows will arouse him.

The feeling of such fabrics as silks and satin on bare skin is pleasing to most women and this is yet another reason why women like lingerie. Good lingerie uses quality fabrics, such as silk, that feels good against the skin. There is much lingerie in the silk line that makes a woman feel comfortable as well as sexy.

Even women who are single and without a significant other in their lives revel in lingerie. It is not only used to arouse a mate, but also as a confidence builder for any woman. A woman wearing sexy lingerie likes the way she looks in the mirror and knows that she will be desired. Just because a woman is single is no reason to give up wearing sexy lingerie. With the confidence that she gains by feeling good about herself on the inside, she will not be single long unless she chooses to be.

Fine fabrics, ribbons and laces have been coveted over the centuries by women who generally like to have feminine, pretty things. Many women enjoy the sensuality of just being a woman. They enjoy painting their nails, wearing make up, wearing certain scents and lotions and wearing feminine style clothing. In addition, women like lingerie because it makes them feel more like a woman in every way. It is not only, if purchased properly, used to enhance the figure, but also to make a woman feel more like a woman.

Each day, most women work hard the same way as men do. Many women work today in fields that were strictly only for men 30 years ago. It is nice for a woman who works in such a field to remind herself every once in a while that she is a woman. Although she may be wearing a hardhat and jeans, if underneath she is wearing a lacy camisole, she will feel very much like a woman. It is probably for this reason the most why women like lingerie.

Gregg Hall