Dating safety is important as crimes like date rape are growing
in number. While most single women long for romance, it is important for
singles to be careful about who they date, the information they give to their
date and other private information they choose to share with someone they have
just met. Even with online dating services, it is vital for singles to not only
rely on what someone says in their personals profile but to use their common
sense for ultimate dating safety.
You must not only worry about the right hair, makeup and
outfit for your first date, you should also be thinking about your personal safety.
Whether you meet your date in the corner shop or got to know each other via
online ads and other online ways to communicate, it is important to prepare for
the date with safety in mind.
Keeping a can of pepper spray or other security item in your
purse before the date might be a great idea. You never know what type of person
you will be meeting and being prepared can make a difference if things go sour.
Do not disclose where you live to a date, especially until
you get to know him better. It is safer for you to maintain your privacy and
meet in public. Therefore, for the first few dates be sure to plan public
meetings and be sure your date does not follow you home afterward.
If your date move too fast or your date’s advances make you
feel uncomfortable, you should firmly tell him his behaviour is bothersome. If
you feel in danger, be sure to call the authorities or a friend to meet you
immediately at the place of your date and refuse to go on another date with
this person in the future. It is always a good idea to pre-arrange for a friend
to call during the date to ensure you are safe. While it may seem rude to use
your phone during the date, it is a good idea for a first date for you to have
someone check in with you. Also, remember your gut instincts are usually right
about people, so follow them!
Remember, there are many men out there willing to take
advantage of single women. So, keep yourself safe and protected by being
prepared in advance and while on your date!
