The best three words in the English language are “I love
you.”
When you are in love, and thus love each him, you must tell
him that you love him. Of course, you do not have to say it every day, may be
not even every week, but when the spirit moves you, when you really feel it
intensely, say it!
Do not worry about whether he’s going to reply “I love you
too,” or whether he says it as often as you do. Keeping score is anyway a game
many people play to protect their self-esteem, because they think that acts of
giving (saying “I love you” is such an act) diminish them if not received in
equal measure.
Giving never lowered anybody, nor has anyone’s store of love
ever been reduced by giving it away.
However, it is also a fact that if you give but never
receives, something is wrong in the relationship, and you need to re-evaluate
it. But, you are not diminished one particle by giving.
Remember, desperately needy love, the kind that says “I
cannot live without you,” is not giving but taking!
Furthermore, bed is not the only place to tell him you love
him, although that is a good place! Any place, any time is good!
The best thing about love is that love speaks not only in
words but also in little acts of thoughtfulness, in letting him know you care
and appreciate him. Just being there for each other, is an important part of
showing your love.
Remember, what goes around, comes around – also love!
