How Conquer the Heart of a Woman

• Be sincere. Compliment her on something you truly admire. Hollow compliments can often be sensed. A compliment that she knows you mean will have much more impact.

• Listen to her. She will give you clues about what she likes. Later, you can show that you remember what she has said and it makes a difference to you. This will earn you big points.

• Do not exaggerate to make yourself sound better. Do not tell her lies just because you think it will help. These things have a way of turning around and biting you.

• Do not offer advice unless asked. It could come off sounding like you are telling her what to do. Just listen and be supportive.

• Do not talk about sex unless she brings it up.

• Do not act desperate. Just let things flow naturally. Desperation is an unappealing quality in sex. Playing a little hard to get can actually be appealing.

• Avoid talking about yourself too much. Let her talk and if she wants to know, she will ask. An ongoing conversation about how big your muscles are or how fast your car is will not score many points. Bragging about how well-endowed you are, is a big no-no too. On the other hand, silence does not work either. Look around and find something to talk about. Preferably about her.

• Avoid letting your eyes wonder to other women when you are with her. Talking about other women or your ex are both no-no's too. If you are out with her, let her know you like being with her by respecting her feelings and keeping your eyes and mind on her.

• Treat her with respect. Do not call her chick, broad, dude or any other name unless you have been together for a while and you come up with pet names for each other. Respect is crucial and a good woman will not be interested in sex with you until she knows you respect her. If a one-night stand is what you have in mind, then do not lead her into believing you want a relationship with her. Playing with her feelings is cruel and something no one should do to anyone.

• Do not make her feel like because you have spent money on her, she should sleep with you. Making her feel this way will generally have the opposite affect. All you have bought is her time and the opportunity to prove to her that you are worth a second look. The rest is up to you.

What is Love?

If every step I ran, was a resemblance of how much I love you I would be running forever.

The best three little words in the English language

The best three words in the English language are “I love you.” 

When you are in love, and thus love each him, you must tell him that you love him. Of course, you do not have to say it every day, may be not even every week, but when the spirit moves you, when you really feel it intensely, say it!

Do not worry about whether he’s going to reply “I love you too,” or whether he says it as often as you do. Keeping score is anyway a game many people play to protect their self-esteem, because they think that acts of giving (saying “I love you” is such an act) diminish them if not received in equal measure. 

Giving never lowered anybody, nor has anyone’s store of love ever been reduced by giving it away.

However, it is also a fact that if you give but never receives, something is wrong in the relationship, and you need to re-evaluate it. But, you are not diminished one particle by giving.

Remember, desperately needy love, the kind that says “I cannot live without you,” is not giving but taking!

Furthermore, bed is not the only place to tell him you love him, although that is a good place! Any place, any time is good!

The best thing about love is that love speaks not only in words but also in little acts of thoughtfulness, in letting him know you care and appreciate him. Just being there for each other, is an important part of showing your love.

Remember, what goes around, comes around – also love!

How to maintain a great and loving relationship

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Top ten tips

1. Show appreciation for each other every day. These include your respect and desire for your partner. It is the little appreciative words and actions that count. “Thanks for a lovely dinner”, will do wonders!

2. Give each other more. Here is a hefty list – more affection, more hugs, more kisses, more massages, more flowers, more physical contact, yes, and even more sex!

3. Speak out! Tell your spouse or partner what is bothering you about him or her. Do not crop up things. Good communication is also talking about the small hindrances in a relationship.

4. We have two ears and one mouth. This means we must listen to what our spouses or partners say. We all need the to feel that we are heard and understood. It is not only listening, but also showing that we indeed listened.

5. Be supportive. In any relationship, the crux is to be supportive of each other. This means we must be each other’s best supporter or fan! We must encourage, praise and appreciate each other’s good qualities, projects and desires. It is no use to support only in words – it is also the deeds behind the words: prepare food, massage each other, assist with the household chores, etc.

6. Spend quality time together. There is a time for being busy, a time for being by yourself but also a time to spend quality time together, even if it means just to hold each other.

7. Have fun. Do the things you did when you first met and tried to impress each other. Share a joke, play some ball on the lawn, play miniature golf, or anything both of you enjoy.

8. Be balanced and fair. Be aware for one of you having less than his or her share of the good stuff or more than his or her share of the bad stuff. Correct any imbalances or unfairness as quickly as possible.

9. Put yourself in your partner’s shoes. See things from his or her point of view. Try to understand how the other one will feel or react.

10. Be open. With each other. Let your partner feel that the two of you are intimate by opening a window to your heart and mind. Never allow him or her guess what you are thinking or feeling. Speak out!

Love and embrace each other every day!

The language of seduction

Every woman needs to know how to speak the language of seduction! The language of seduction is you greatest tool in seducing and winning the man you love.

But, do not be misled. Although the spoken word is a necessity, the focus should be on non-verbal communication. Most of it is based on the silent words that speak through your body, known as body language. While performing your act of flirtation, it is important to match your body language with it. Be playful by slightly touching him in a playful way, such as a light shove and laughing. Your body actions should tell the story that you are a desirable person and that you want him.

Remember, it is also very important to be able to get his non-verbal feedback on all your flirting and seduction efforts. I you read it wrongly, or do not interpret it correctly, all your hard efforts can be in vain! Pay attention to how he responds. If he seems uncomfortable with your words or playful ways, then tone it down.

To be feminine and seductive does not always take place when you are trying to get the person you have your eyes on. Continue with your seductive character even after getting in a relationship. It is actually the most important time to bring out your seductive side because it will help the relationship remain hot, spicy, and sexy. You will always keep your partner wanting more! Keep him on his toes by dressing the part, leaving your mark, talking the talk, acting the act, and being yourself.

Daniel

The joy of dancing

Dance has been described as a non verbal communication. It is a body language that expresses itself without having said anything. Belle dance, break dance, hip hop or ballroom dance whatever the form all are a way of expressing different emotions and at the same time a good source of entertainment. Dance is an excellent way of conveying your feelings as well as letting out all the emotions buried inside you. It is a good exercise for the body. It keeps your body flexible and fit. Dance is good both for the body and the brain. So why not dance when it is advantageous.

Couples should always indulge into some kind of dance as it is important for them. Dancing for couples is a first-class way to be together, enjoy each others company and at the same time a good technique for exercising. In this busy world couples hardly find time to enjoy each others company especially when it is no more new and fresh. As the time passes by and a relationship grows old the responsibilities grow and couples very comfortable in the company of each other. They let things go as they are, prefer the normal routine of going to work, returning home, eating and going off to sleep with little or no other activity. This kind of routine makes a relationship dreary and desolate since there is no excitement. Dancing is a good option to make a relationship enjoyable.

How to dance when you really don’t know it? Well not a big deal. You do not have to be a perfect dancer. Get some dance videos and practice those steps. Try following the easier steps and once you get them you won’t need the videos. This is because you get into the rhythm and your body becomes flexible and as such you are able to get your own dance steps. If you want to be a perfect dancer then you could join a dance school and become a perfect dancer. If you are not keen in becoming a perfect dancer you can still go for it to get excitement and entertainment in your life. You do not have to go to a dance club as you can create your own dance hall in your house. You do not need much space. Just shift some of the furniture in a corner and make sufficient space to dance. Dancing shoes are not required you can dance bare footed as it is your own house. Then put on some dance music and dance together. Dance in whichever form you feel like. If you feel romantic put on some light music and do the ball dance and if you loaded with to much of energy then go for some bubbly number and dance to the notes.

Dancing in such a manner makes your life thrilling and lively. You do not feel like one of those dull couples who feel that there is no charm left in their married life and are just dragging their life.