1. Whenever we meet new people they always
ask "what do you do?", “where are you from?", "do you come
here often?" We hate answering these questions over and over again, yet we
continue to ask them to other people we meet. Women see these questions as time
fillers which the men are not genuinely interested in knowing the answer to, so
it is important to come up with some new material.
2. Women are often approached by men who
immediately fire a series of questions at them, making them feel as though
they’re under cross-examination. Usually the response to her answers is usually
“oh really, so…”, showing that they are not actually interested and this stops
deeper conversation from forming. Avoid asking a series of grueling questions,
try asking one, make a connection on the point and then allow this to lead on
to another. For advanced level skills, try to elicit the answer without even
having to ask the boring question – make an assumption or guess about what she
does, where she is from, or what food she likes. You get the same information
but by doing this the conversation is more interesting for her.
3. Find something more specific to her,
preferably not about her appearance, or don't say anything at all. Have
interesting answers to standard questions
4. There are certain questions and
conversational paths that occur again and again for each person. Think about
the questions you regularly get asked, and have a more interesting reply
prepared in the back of your mind. If a conversation gets boring, even if it's
on the girl’s part, she won't remember it was her fault, she will just know she
is bored and this doesn’t give her a great impression!
5. When they feel good, they will want to
talk to you more.
Consider these points when engaging in
conversation and you will be much more interesting, not just with women, but
with everyone.
