Sometimes guys get a bad rap for having nothing on their minds but sex and let's be honest that's true in some cases, but if you want to heat things up in your bedroom than the more you're thinking about getting in on with the partner waiting for you at home the hotter things are going to be between the sheets. And, if you can get HER thinking about what's to come then you're in for an awesome amount of fun.
Unlike other animals, humans are lucky enough to have imaginations. We can live whole exciting adventures right inside our minds. And the best part is we can make them feel incredibly real. Think about all of those times you ended up masturbating as a teenager what were you thinking about that got you so hot? A real girl probably didn't have to be anywhere near you, and you could turned on, right? Well thank your very vivid imagination for that.
Maybe back then, an imagination wasn't such a good thing, especially if your only outlet for gratification was yourself. But now that you're all grown up, it's a whole new ball game.
So here's how your imagination is going to help you have unforgettable real sex with your partner tonight.
While you're at work today, close your eyes when no one else is around. Now while your eyes are closed I want you to picture your partner undressing slowly in front of you. You can't touch her, but she badly wants you to as she takes off each and every piece of clothing she has on then stretches out completely naked on the bed, the couch, the floor, the hood of your car whatever location turns up your heat the highest.
If you don't start feeling a physical reaction from that little fantasy, I'd be very surprised. But don't dwell on it and do absolutely nothing about that heart pounding desire rushing through your body. Just fight it enough so you can do your work, but definitely don't take matters into your own hands if you know what I mean.
A few hours before you head home, close your eyes again. This time picture your partner and you acting out your hottest fantasy. Maybe she's been speeding, and you're the stern police office who needs to teach her a lesson. Maybe she's a stranger you've just met in a smoky bar whose name you don't even know. Maybe you catch her with another sexy woman, and they both ask you to join in. It doesn't matter what fantasy you have. What matters is that you picture every single detail of that fantasy coming true from the moment you first touch her moist skin, to the second when you penetrate her body, and to those final moments of your climax. Picture it and feel it through your whole entire body.
As soon as you finish your fantasy, call her up on the phone wherever she is. Tell her in the most provocative way you can what you want to do to her when you get home. Describe how you want to touch her, what positions you want to try, and more. You don't have to share the details of your fantasy with her but do share with her everything you can think of about the reality you want to share with her soon.
From the time you leave work until you reach home (or her house), don't stop thinking about that fantasy but absolutely keep your hands off yourself. It's going to be very hard to resist since you're going to be incredibly horny by this time, but the pay off is going to be well worth all of your self-control.
When you see her, don't hesitate. Just start doing exactly what you promised her on the phone. Depending on your partner, she may or may not already be ready for you. Some women fantasize about their men all day long, and your call may have been just enough to get her all heated up, too. If not, then now is the time to dazzle her with your incredible foreplay skills. But don't forget to keep talking dirty to her and telling her how much you've been wanting her all day. That's sure to get her just as hot as you are.
Then, well, then I think you know what to do next. If not, just think back to your earlier fantasy and follow its lead.
By Gabrielle Moore
