Wednesday, January 4, 2012

What is femininity?



Femininity is created from the inside out and for a woman to be more feminine, she must prioritize, and work on what goes on internally.

Femininity is not so much about following a set of rules, because rules are rigid and there is nothing rigid about femininity. To start with, femininity must occur from within. A fake feminine woman will never, ever, ever fool all smart, good men. If you want a good, truly masculine man to love you, protect you, adore you, take care of you, and worship you for life, you must have the feminine qualities to attract that kind of man.
The truth is, men want a feminine woman. The good men are also not fooled by trashy looking, egocentric and insecure women who will give their bodies and feminine souls entirely, all for the sake of feeling as if they are enough, or worthy, for a night.

A truly feminine woman is not trapped in her head. She is free. Women are nurturers. Truly beautiful, feminine women take care of things.


In order to be more feminine, a woman must allow herself to be vulnerable. If you are not vulnerable, you do not need a man. It is important to be aware that if a man is masculine at his core, then it is important that he does feel needed to an extent. A woman can hold her own and make her own money – being feminine is just more about respecting his role and allowing him to do certain things for you.


The freedom of a feminine woman is in her ability to be spontaneous and to go by feeling. This is the opposite of being indifferent. A feminine woman is not always about what’s ‘realistic’, she’s more able to feel, and she empathizes with humans and all living things.

Tips to be feminine

Use music: Music is one of the best ways for changing your state and influencing your mood. Listen to music that makes you feel grateful, soft, peaceful, happy, serene, joyful, and free. You can even dance to it in your own home.

Accentuate the attributes you have that are the opposite of a man’s: It’s in the way you sit, the way you talk, the words you use, how you use your hands, how you smile, how you touch others, how you greet people (words and the physical aspects). A lot of women stand and walk like men, drink like a man would, unknowingly. They stand with their hands on their hips the way a man would do it, and sway their arms and legs in the way that a strong and powerful man would do.

Work-out on accentuating and improving every feminine aspect of your body: This includes the buttocks, the legs, the tummy, and the breasts (weights to help the breasts defy gravity. Do smaller weights with more repetitions that keep your arms toned, rather than strong looking.

Feminine women are delicate: Any jewellery that is overly harsh starts to take away from the woman and draw attention to fashion.

Men go crazy over a woman who can give them a genuine smile: It does not matter what her physical attributes are, if you give a man a genuine, happy smile and look him in the eye – he is going to be profoundly affected. Ask any man who is in touch with his masculinity whether a smile is extremely important in a woman and he will say yes.

Appreciate men for being men: Always show appreciation for a masculine man.